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Dr. Eric Chaghouri

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Dr. Eric Chaghouri is a distinguished forensic psychiatrist and addiction medicine specialist with a thriving private practice in West Hollywood and Century City, California. He specializes in the treatment of co-occurring psychiatric and addictive disorders and is recognized for his work with attorneys, courts, and legal teams in both civil and criminal litigation. He also provides expert consultation on psychiatric issues for major television networks and oversees a growing team of mental health clinicians.

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“If They Lose Their Job, They’ll Lose Everything.”

This is one of the most common fears we hear over the phone.

Maybe your loved one has already been written up. Maybe they are calling in sick more often, showing up late, making mistakes they normally wouldn’t make, or struggling to keep up with responsibilities they used to handle with ease. Or maybe, like many, they are still doing just enough to keep everyone from noticing.

If you are worried their job is hanging by a thread, your concern is completely understandable.

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Addiction Doesn’t Usually Cost Someone Their Job Overnight

For most people, the workplace impact of addiction happens gradually:

  • The Early Stage: It starts small. They call in sick a little more often. They are late a few times.
  • The Middle Stage: A supervisor starts asking questions. Coworkers begin quietly picking up the slack.
  • The Critical Stage: People start noticing that something has changed. Eventually, what once seemed manageable becomes impossible to hide.

We have met many people who told themselves, “If I can just keep my job, everything will be okay. My job needs me.” Unfortunately, addiction is a progressive condition, it continues to worsen whether someone is working or not.

Work Can Be Part of Recovery

Losing a job is deeply painful, but it doesn’t have to be the end of the story.

Some people enter treatment before their work is ever affected. Others seek help only after receiving a formal warning or disciplinary action. Sadly, many wait until they have lost their job entirely, forcing them to rebuild careers they never thought they would have to start over.

The good news is that recovery works. Treatment has successfully helped people safely return to thriving careers in:

🩺 Healthcare🏗️ Construction🏫 Education
💻 Technology🚨 Public Safety🏨 Hospitality

Your loved one’s career story isn’t over.

There May Be More Options Than You Think

Many families do not realize that help is available before a job is lost. Depending on your loved one’s situation and employer, they may have access to:

  • FMLA (Family and Medical Leave Act): Job-protected, unpaid leave for qualifying medical treatment.
  • Employee Assistance Programs (EAP): Confidential workplace programs offering counseling and treatment referrals. We work directly with many EAPs.
  • Employer-Sponsored Health Insurance: Comprehensive coverage that frequently covers addiction treatment. (It is often much more affordable than people think, and we can help find care covered by most major insurance providers).
  • Short-Term Disability Benefits: Partial income replacement during treatment, depending on the employer and insurance plan.
  • ADA Workplace Accommodations: Legal protections and schedule adjustments that may be available to those entering recovery.

A Word About FMLA

Many families are surprised to learn that substance use disorder treatment qualifies as a serious health condition under the Family and Medical Leave Act (FMLA) when legal requirements are met.

💡 What FMLA Provides:

If eligible, FMLA generally guarantees up to 12 weeks of unpaid, job-protected leave per year for qualifying medical reasons, specifically including professional treatment for substance use disorders. Note: FMLA protects time spent in treatment, but it does not protect absences caused by active use or impairment.

Your privacy is also heavily protected. Medical information is confidential, and employers generally receive documentation supporting the need for leave rather than detailed, private medical records.

If you’re considering treatment, it is highly beneficial to discuss the employment situation with both a healthcare provider and the employer’s Human Resources department before making assumptions. We have walked many families through this exact process, and we are here to help you navigate it.

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Don’t Wait Until They Receive a Termination Letter

One of the hardest conversations we have with families is after a job has already been lost. Almost everyone tells us: “I wish I had reached out months ago.”

Gathering information today doesn’t mean your loved one has to enter treatment tomorrow. It simply means you will understand your options before the situation becomes more difficult.

If you are worried about your loved one’s employment, let us help you explore the treatment, insurance, and workplace protections available to them.

Sometimes, protecting a career begins with asking for help before it’s too late.

You Don't Have to Carry This Alone.

Whether your biggest fear is an overdose, losing a job, declining health, damaged relationships, or simply not knowing what to do next, we want you to know that there is hope. Our team is here to answer your questions, help you understand your options, and support both you and your loved one. There is no pressure, no judgment, and no obligation, just caring professionals who understand how difficult this journey can be. The call is free.

Take the next step when you’re ready. We are here to walk this path with you. We also have free monthly informational and support meetings for you. Please click here for more information. It is a hybrid meeting, live in person and on-line for those who cannot make it to Costa Mesa.

Quiz: How Much Drinking Is Too Much?

Is your evening glass of wine a harmless habit, or is it starting to catch up with you? It’s not always easy to tell where “social drinking” ends and “too much” begins.

Take this quick, 2-minute quiz to check in on your relationship with alcohol and get clear, personalized insights.

If you answered "Yes" to more than one question:

Reflecting on your routine and finding balance

Answering "yes" to one or more of these questions can be a sign that alcohol might be starting to take up a bit more space in your mind, routine, or relationships than you would like. It is incredibly common for drinking habits to slowly shift over time, especially during stressful seasons, but realizing you want to look closer at those habits is a brave first step.

  • A gentle next step: You don’t have to make any major, life-altering decisions today. Simply giving yourself permission to talk openly and honestly about where you are can lift a massive weight.
  • Let's talk it through: We have compassionate, real people ready to listen and walk alongside you. Whether your goal is to cut back, take a temporary break, or just share your story, we are here with zero judgment and absolute confidentiality.

Want us to reach out to you?

Leave your details below and a caring member of our team will connect with you quietly and confidentially.

Quiz: Am I Depressed?

We all experience days when we feel down, exhausted, or just completely unmotivated. But when those heavy feelings start lingering, it can be hard to tell if you’re just going through a rough patch or if it’s something more.

This quick, confidential check-in is designed to help you pause and reflect on how you’ve actually been feeling lately. It is completely anonymous, entirely non-judgmental, and takes less than two minutes.

If you answered "Yes" to 3 questions or more:

Finding a gentle path forward

Answering "yes" to one or more of these questions can be a sign that a heavy mood, low energy, or a sense of exhaustion has started to weave its way into your daily life. Carrying this emotional weight is incredibly tiring, but acknowledging how much you have been holding inside is a profound and brave first step toward feeling like yourself again.

    • A gentle next step: You don’t have to navigate these heavy feelings or find the answers all on your own. Simply letting someone else help carry the weight for a moment can offer immense relief.
  • Let's talk it through: We have warm, compassionate people ready to listen and walk alongside you. Whether you are looking for guidance on how to start feeling better, or simply want a safe, confidential space to share what you've been going through—we are here for you.

Want us to reach out to you?

Leave your details below and a caring member of our team will connect with you quietly and confidentially.

Quiz: Do I Have a Substance Use Problem?

It’s common for habits to slowly shift over time, especially during stressful seasons. Often, we find ourselves using a substance to cope, unwind, or get through the day, only to realize it is starting to take up more space in our routine, thoughts, or relationships than we’d like.

This quick, 10-question check-in is a quiet space to reflect honestly on how your use is impacting your life. It is entirely anonymous, completely free of clinical judgment, and takes less than two minutes.

If you answered "Yes" to more than one question:

Reflecting on your routine and finding balance

Answering "yes" to one or more of these questions can be a sign that substance use might be starting to take up a bit more space in your mind, routine, or relationships than you would like. It is incredibly common for these habits to slowly shift over time, especially during stressful seasons, but realizing you want to look closer at those habits is a brave first step.

  • A gentle next step: You don’t have to make any major, life-altering decisions today. Simply giving yourself permission to talk openly and honestly about where you are can lift a massive weight.
  • Let's talk it through: We have compassionate, real people ready to listen and walk alongside you. Whether your goal is to cut back, take a temporary break, or just share your story, we are here with zero judgment and absolute confidentiality.

Want us to reach out to you?

Leave your details below and a caring member of our team will connect with you quietly and confidentially.

Quiz: Could It Be Both?

When we are struggling with deep stress, anxious thoughts, or a low mood, it is incredibly natural to look for immediate relief. Sometimes, we turn to alcohol or other substances just to quiet our minds, get some sleep, or feel normal for a night. 

This short self-assessment is designed to help you pause and look at how these two parts of your life might be influencing each other. It is entirely anonymous and takes less than two minutes.

If you answered "Yes" to more than one question:

Reflecting on how your experiences connect

Answering "yes" to one or more of these questions can be a sign that your mental health and substance use are deeply intertwined. When anxiety, depression, or stress connect with alcohol or drug use, they often feed into one another in a cycle. Recognizing this link is a powerful and brave step toward finding a path that heals both at the same time.

  • A gentle next step: You don’t have to separate these struggles or try to fix them one by one. True recovery looks at the whole picture, and starting with a simple, honest conversation can offer immense relief.
  • Let's talk it through: We have compassionate, real people ready to listen and walk alongside you. Whether your goal is to find balance, heal from trauma, or address both mental health and substance use together—we are here with zero judgment and absolute confidentiality.

Want us to reach out to you?

Leave your details below and a caring member of our team will connect with you quietly and confidentially.

Alcohol Self-Assessment

Take a moment to answer these questions honestly.
There are no right or wrong answers.

This assessment is not a medical diagnosis, but it can help you determine whether alcohol may be having a greater impact on your life than you realize.

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Developed by Patrick Conod, LCSW, and Cari Lawyer, CATC I, on behalf of the Changes Treatment Center Clinical Leadership Team.

Is My Loved One Struggling with Alcohol?

A Self-Assessment for Family Members and Friends

Watching someone you love change because of alcohol can be confusing and heartbreaking. You may find yourself questioning what you’re seeing, wondering if you’re overreacting, or hoping things will get better on their own.

This assessment is designed to help you reflect on the behaviors you’ve noticed. It isn’t a diagnosis, but it may help you determine whether it’s time to seek guidance or support.

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Developed by Patrick Conod, LCSW, and Cari Lawyer, CATC I, on behalf of the Changes Treatment Center Clinical Leadership Team.